Every dog can benefit from having a safe, comfy space to retreat to when they feel scared or need a restful spot. For nervous or excitable dogs, a quiet back bedroom can be the perfect hideaway when guests are over.

Having a familiar, cozy space can keep your dog safe during busy times like moving, home repairs, parties, or gatherings. It helps prevent them from darting out the door or snagging something off someone’s plate! Plus, you can bring your dog out for short visits during the festivities, giving them a break in between to recharge. This way, they'll be more relaxed and happy when they join the fun again.

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Choose a location.

Most dogs will do best in a quiet location away from where you spend time with guests. A back bedroom or office can often be a good choice. We want to minimize sounds your dog may hear and give them space. 

You may also choose an area closer to the activity, such as gating off the kitchen or a hallway space. This will allow your dog to see and hear the action without jumping on counters, running out a door, or stealing food. This space is an excellent option for a dog who needs a little help but is not afraid of others. 

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Practice confinement - with your dog!

If your dog is used to a crate, using it in this space can be beneficial. For other dogs, we could use a pen, close a door, or put a gate across a doorway (if your dog cannot jump the gate). Spend time with your dog in this room or space. Read a book, call a friend, or rest. You can occasionally praise or briefly interact with your dog, but we want them to learn that this is just a place to hang out quietly.

You can add white noise or a safe chew object, such as a food-stuffed toy, to create a routine in this environment.

If your dog is having trouble, please reach out for additional help, and we can add intermediate steps for your dog.

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Begin Separation

Once your dog is able to relax with you in the room - we’re ready to leave briefly! Exit the room and return within a short period, such as 5-30 seconds. Resume whatever you were doing before you left. We want this not to be a big deal. Repeat this and gradually extend the time you are away.

Be observant - if your dog is distressed, we know we moved too fast and should work in smaller increments. 

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Preparing to Use Your Safe Space

As your dog gets more experienced, we can make our practice more realistic. This could include practicing at various times of the day. You can decrease the time you spend with your dog before leaving the space. Practice moving your dog to their safe space after you look out the front door or answer a phone call. Try multiple, short times in their safe space on some days. 

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Using the Safe Space

Ask guests or repair workers to call or text when they arrive. Calmly move your dog to their rest area before answering the door. Use white noise and the chew item as you have done in practice. If we move a dog to a safe space before others enter, a dog is much more likely to remain calm.

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For some dogs, we need minimal practice, and other dogs need quite a bit of preparation before we can use this skill. Each dog is different - let us know if you need help with a personalized training plan.